“If wisdom could erase all defects, it would have nature herself under its charge.” All of us have problems. Some we are born with, some we cause ourselves, other happen out of our control. Often a problem can become an excuse that perpetuates further problems. We think to ourselves, if only I didn’t have to deal with this, I could make progress on that project. Once this is over, I’ll start going to the gym.

Humans are easily influenced. If you think yourself immune, you are either lacking self-awareness or are in denial. This is not to say that influence is inherently bad. It can be a nurturing or destructive force, depending on the source. Take care with who and what you let enter your life. The friends we make, the media we consume, and the communities we join all create the environment of which we are the product. You must have a strong set of beliefs and principles that enable you to judge whether an influence is healthy or not. If the answer is no, ruthlessly cut it out of your life. The bad has no right to your time.

Improving oneself is a lifelong endeavor. Do not despair at this realization, embrace it. Your work is a noble one; you should give thanks that it will always be with you. For it is not the destination that is significant but the journey. After all, death is the final destination for everyone. Seek a friend, or perhaps a mentor, to join you on your journey. Humans are social creatures. Much is left unspoken, meaning much is learned by observation. There is an insight to be gained from even a novice. Every individual is a concoction of unique experiences and perspectives. The same sight appears differently when seen through two pairs of eyes.